How To Fix A Marriage

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How to Keep The Relationship ?

Each person has to find the right mix of qualities that works for them. My list is based on my personal experience. It probably doesn't matter, but I think I should explain my list a little.

The following is what I think the ideal woman is for me. This is more of a goal than a rule. This is my dream girl but not what I expected to get....but after I made the list......my wish came true!

1. Speaks English

A relationship can only grow with open and honest communication that is understood by both. I have learned through experience that a woman who has limited English skills cannot understand enough for our relationship to grow. I too cannot speak Thai well enough for her to understand me. Without good English skills, no other of my requirements matters.

2. Educated (BA or more)

Once again, from my experience of dating women with only a high school diploma, solving problems, communicating, and expressing opinions is not as effective with uneducated women. While I know education does not replace common sense, it does help when dealing with issues in a family and a society.

3. Employed

There are two reasons I want a woman to be employed:

a. A woman who works can help provide for the needs of the family as well as her parents family. Food, shelter, education and many other needs can be handled easily if both the husband and wife are working. Thai culture places great importance on the children taking care of the parents. A wife who works can help her parents more directly while the husband worries mostly about his wife and children.

b. I think a woman should have something that challenges her outside the home. Something she can strive to achieve. A job will give her something to do and she will not be bored.

4. Single (No BF, Gik, or Husband)

This is pretty straight forward. No boyfriend, no gik (lover) and no husband. What else needs to be said about this?

Well, maybe a bit more. Some guys might easily be tempted into a relationship with a beautiful woman looking for a little more attention than she is getting from her currently relationship. I was once and it didn't work out. So I added it to my list.

6. Lives in Chiang Mai.

I have had long distance relationships and find they don't work. I don't like to be alone. I live in Chiang Mai and I want her to live here too.

7. Is Thai

I don't plan on living anywhere else but Thailand. It makes sense that my wife is Thai too.

8. Likes Me

I hope she enjoys my company. I hope she laughs at my jokes...even if they are not funny..I hope she misses me. I hope I can tell.

9. In love

I want to always think about her. I want to be obsessed with her. I want to miss her when she is not around. I want to hear love songs and think of her. I want to see the beauty of the world and think of her. Everything that is wonderful in life, I want to share with her. I want to feel without her, I cannot live. That is what I think love is.

There are a couple of other items that I look for but they are a bit more personal so I won't mention them .

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