Relationship Planning
What is the right decision here ?
Ok for starters I am a young aspiring musician. I play the guitar and one day hope to pursue a career as a music producer. Now I have a girl friend (we are in a serious relationship planning for the future) and she wants me to go for an electrician engineering degree and get a decent job so we can settle down and what not. Now I also wanted to pursue a course in pre music production which is only a one year course. Needless to say she threatened to leave me If i choose the music production course.
Now Listen, the question is this:
Should I follow my dreams and become a music producer, or should I conform to the ways of my girlfriend, settle down and get a decent job in which i might not even like and dread... ?
Please I need your help...
In my opinion, if you are in a band or working on a solo career in which you show great promise and you are able to provide for yourself and be financially independant then by all means you should continue to pursue your music. If, on the other hand, this is a dream you have and you are not making a living by doing it I would take the class your girlfriend recommended so that you can earn a good income while you work on your goal of becoming a musician and producer. There's an old saying that goes "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush."
I caution you not to let anyone force you into anything because this will lead to resentment down the road. Maybe you can work a regular job and pursue your music at night or on the weekends. There are night classes and other ways of doing both things at once. In this economic climate, you may have to postpone what you really want to do in order to provide for yourself and any future family you may have. With less people spending money on entertainment and less people eating out and going to concerts, etc. now would be a good time to make sure you have a fall back plan. Good luck with whatever you decide.
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